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Sports_Card_King
08-07-2009, 12:53 PM
...Ok so Ihavent been around for a bit (here and there looking at stuff, paying for stuff, etc..) but I need to rant and flip out a bit


Ok a few weeks ago Cheryl went into the hospital. We all thought heart attack, even the doctors. Thank God it was her "frozen Shoulder" and now she has asteo-arthritis or something like that.

So now we come to the past few weeks. I now learned (knew it for a while) my oldest and his friend smoke weed in her parents down stairs room. When I go to "talk to him" (my way) about it they say not to because they cant controll him and make him stop. Then they make the comment "We need the money he gets in to live on". WHA??????? They care more about the money then they do the little pot heads health?

Then today really did me in. As you all know Cheryl had back surgery. Well on occasion if it gets to bad, the doc give her a script for pain killers. Well no more then 10 minutes ago her brother (the one who over-dosed on morphine) and HER MOM called up damn near begging for a few of them. Her brother even went to the level of offering money for them. Then when cheryl said no (after I yelled if they keep asking Ill put my size 16 somewhere) her mom says "I cant believe you said no... I thought you cared about your brother." So now I have a crying wife and Im ready to go out there and strangle all 3 of them.


But on a happier note, I have to promote 2 sellers on webidz. First This&Thatguy. I bid on an XBox and some games. Tab was $100. He let me pay it off $25 a month. Now if I can just figure out how to play 2 of the games Id be good LOL. I told a friend about it and now hes watching some of your PS2 games LOL.

Second, seller Brad50 (I think thats the name). I recently bought a small digital camera. He tossed in ANOTHER bracelet as a gift. So thank you much to both those sellers.

InspirationPlus
08-07-2009, 01:13 PM
Butch...Lots going on. First of all, prayers for Cheryl. As for the brother-in-law, I hope you will continue to deny his requests. Don't want you getting into legal trouble for dispensing medicine without a license. Here we have a saying, "Your a** would be in a sling". His doctor will prescribe as needed. Maybe his doctor is on to him?

Thanks for sharing about our generous sellers here at WeBidz. That's part of what makes this site the greatest!

All the best to you and Cheryl.

thisnthatguy
08-07-2009, 02:12 PM
Thanks for the plug Butch :) I need all the help I can get!

rnrgiftsnmore
08-07-2009, 02:19 PM
...Ok so Ihavent been around for a bit (here and there looking at stuff, paying for stuff, etc..) but I need to rant and flip out a bit


Ok a few weeks ago Cheryl went into the hospital. We all thought heart attack, even the doctors. Thank God it was her "frozen Shoulder" and now she has asteo-arthritis or something like that.

So now we come to the past few weeks. I now learned (knew it for a while) my oldest and his friend smoke weed in her parents down stairs room. When I go to "talk to him" (my way) about it they say not to because they cant controll him and make him stop. Then they make the comment "We need the money he gets in to live on". WHA??????? They care more about the money then they do the little pot heads health?

Then today really did me in. As you all know Cheryl had back surgery. Well on occasion if it gets to bad, the doc give her a script for pain killers. Well no more then 10 minutes ago her brother (the one who over-dosed on morphine) and HER MOM called up damn near begging for a few of them. Her brother even went to the level of offering money for them. Then when cheryl said no (after I yelled if they keep asking Ill put my size 16 somewhere) her mom says "I cant believe you said no... I thought you cared about your brother." So now I have a crying wife and Im ready to go out there and strangle all 3 of them.


But on a happier note, I have to promote 2 sellers on webidz. First This&Thatguy. I bid on an XBox and some games. Tab was $100. He let me pay it off $25 a month. Now if I can just figure out how to play 2 of the games Id be good LOL. I told a friend about it and now hes watching some of your PS2 games LOL.

Second, seller Brad50 (I think thats the name). I recently bought a small digital camera. He tossed in ANOTHER bracelet as a gift. So thank you much to both those sellers.

Butch,

Sorry to hear that stuff is being thrown at you from everywhich direction. I know that you have a strong faith, so know that I am praying for Cheryl's health and your strength. You are a stong person, but sometimes we need His hand to prop us up.

As for your son, is he an adult? Even if he is not, you, my friend, will need to practice "tough love". I have learned this the hard way. I have a son, 29 years old, and I still have to practice it. I found a book about the "tough love" program at a garage sale many years ago. I still read it from time to time, just for a refresher.

As for your brother in law and mother in law, continue to be strong, and hold Cheryl tight, as she needs to know that she is right what she does. Give her lots of hugs, as I am sure that she is hurting over all this.

On the other notes, I too have ordered from Brad, and he is great... I have not ordered from Steve, but I do know that he is an honest seller and quite an asset to WeBidz. Just like you.

I know that my brother really appreciates the extras that you tucked into his birthday present that I won in your points auction.

Stop by more often, we sure miss you and that great sense of humor. Even if it is only to rant, but give us a smile at the same time.

Blessing and stregth to you and Cheryl,
Roz

Sports_Card_King
08-07-2009, 04:51 PM
Thanks all. I wish I could do more for my son, but he doesnt live with us so theres really nothing I can do. Iknow who the buy from so either Ill let it slip to the chief of police (who we are good friends with) or Ill deal with em myself.

As for her brother, He has no doctor yet. When he OD'ed his doctor dropped him. He will start seeing my doc next week, but I know he want get pain killers off him LOL. Cheryl is the one thats getting the worst end of it. Since she said she aint giving him some, her mom refuses to talk to her... again. I cant wait till we move near our youngest (hes in Sharon, PA). He actually has a good head on his shoulders

colourplease
08-07-2009, 11:49 PM
Butch,

Sorry to hear that stuff is being thrown at you from everywhich direction. I know that you have a strong faith, so know that I am praying for Cheryl's health and your strength. You are a stong person, but sometimes we need His hand to prop us up.

As for your son, is he an adult? Even if he is not, you, my friend, will need to practice "tough love". I have learned this the hard way. I have a son, 29 years old, and I still have to practice it. I found a book about the "tough love" program at a garage sale many years ago. I still read it from time to time, just for a refresher.

As for your brother in law and mother in law, continue to be strong, and hold Cheryl tight, as she needs to know that she is right what she does. Give her lots of hugs, as I am sure that she is hurting over all this.

On the other notes, I too have ordered from Brad, and he is great... I have not ordered from Steve, but I do know that he is an honest seller and quite an asset to WeBidz. Just like you.

I know that my brother really appreciates the extras that you tucked into his birthday present that I won in your points auction.

Stop by more often, we sure miss you and that great sense of humor. Even if it is only to rant, but give us a smile at the same time.

Blessing and stregth to you and Cheryl,
Roz

Tough love is the hardest thing for us parents to do to do but it is so important.

Agree hold Cheryl tight.

Will keep you in my prayers.
Christiane

brad50
08-08-2009, 05:38 PM
Hey Butch we will keep you & your family in our prayers! keep your chin up it'll all work out!:)

Lanascountry
08-08-2009, 07:03 PM
Continuing to pray for you and Cheryl, Butch.
You both are doing the right things. God's blessings dear
friend.